Category: Dating and Relationships
About this thing we call "love":?
What is it? How do you know when someone "loves" you, or vice versa? How can it be recognized? Is there any particular qualities you look for when trying to decide if a person is really in "love" with you? Or how do you determine if you "love" someone?
This is a general discussion so be open.
But, don't we have a boared about this already?
Or am I tripping.
We might, but I fail to remember, and I couldn't bother going to look. Lol!
Already forgeting things, at your age.
Hmmm,
love is: doing stuff for someone. and not expecting anything in return, just doing because you want to not because they ask you to!
That may be the case, but that's not really love. You could want to do something for someone because you want them to like you or because you want to look good in their and/or other people's eyes.
And Ashley, there is another board about this and it was created by you. I assure you it isn't difficult to find at all.
Ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Note: I'll talk about love in terms of couples and marriage not friends, and I'll attack the question philosophicall. Let us discuss this Epistemologically and ethically.
Love is a tight unity that two persons no matter which combination of sexuality are attracted by each other. This occurs because of similar interests expressed through values which must be similar. Therefore, the couple is bonded together because of there similar values and they feel at peace with one another and that the partner who are there's is supportive when it comes to views, decisions, and talk. it becomes someone they really value and would die for.
Immature love says, 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says, 'I need you because I love you.' – Erich Fromm
Raaj.
I agree to a certain point... but as I have posted it does get deeper.